Welcome to our bisexual category!
A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park.
These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet.
I am hopeful and do feel some healing. To just see ourselves as support to our husband's "noble" ambitions.